OK - I'm the last one to point this out, but this is a truly extraordinary blog. No, I don't know if this author is for real, but it certainly sounds authentic (I do have my suspicions about certain other bloggers purporting to show the seamier side of Orthodoxy). No time to reflect on the ramifications now, but there are many. I certainly won't dismiss the term "shidduch crisis" as blithely as I might have been tempted to do in the past.